I started renovating thoughts as a way for me to deal with my social anxieties of being a grown up. I have 2 kids and a grandma with dementia and adulting for me is a day to day struggle. So I asked myself why?? What am I doing wrong all these moms all over social media have their shit together why don’t I have mine. Then I realized I was boxing myself into a category of how and who I should be. I am not the perfect mom, not the perfect girl friend or granddaughter. So sometimes I’ll be doing mom things, but also doing things that absolutely nothing have nothing to do with my kids because I need time for me too. My grammar isn’t great and I’m not a professional blogger. But if you want to laugh and say ugh I feel like that too. Give it a like and share.